Discovering My Own Sexuality

Sex is something that I am very open to. I use to consider myself a prude because I just did the regular missionary style thing with my ex and that is all we did. Honestly, I just didn't enjoy it. I participated only because I thought it was the right thing to do. It wasn't until I met my new partner that I really took off in the sexuality department. I wasn't very experienced but everything just felt so natural. I tried new things and I found that sex could be enjoyable.

After we explored many things, and five years later, we are now so in tune with each other. I know all of his spots and he knows mine. We know when we want to try new things and we both enjoy being surprised. It is really amazing, knowing who you are and who you are with. I like that we can be so open and share each other in a way that we don't share with anyone else but each other. Sexuality is something really amazing.

Have you discovered it yet? How did you learn about your sexuality?

Excuse me while I change and a Giveaway

I have been MIA for quite some time from my Garden of Secrets blog. What have I been up to? Five other awesome blogging projects! I started blogging in 2009 and since have learned many things.

1. It is just the Internet. 
2. I blog because I enjoy doing it. 
3. I am going to be okay if someone hates on my blog or me as a person. 
4. Blog haters blog about hating blogs because that is what they enjoy doing. HATERS. 
5. It took some time but I finally realized that I need to blog for me.  

With all of that said, now that I am way caught up on all my other blogging projects... I gave Garden of Secrets a whole new look. I spent lots of time and probably a few "son of a bitches" blurt outs getting it just the way I like it. In light of coming back and giving my blog a new look and much needed attention I decided to have a giveaway. I have other blogging projects that I dedicate to things like being a mom, homemaker, shopper, student, etc. This one is my naughty side mostly. I enjoy being an adult and the adult things in this world. Including the items that I love getting from Eden Fantasys. Because they are probably my favorite sex shop ever... I am giving a $25 gift card to one lucky reader.

Please enter below and good luck to everyone! 

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Is that vanilla cake I smell?

I am a sucker for bath and shower gels, bubble baths, etc. When I was given the opportunity to review the new line Cake at Eden Fantasys, I jumped at it. Imagine cake-smelling bubbles!

Cake is a new company to me and I had never used there products before. I received a 17.4 oz bottle of Cake Supremely Rich Bath and Shower Froth in "it's a slice." They also have "desserted island," which I have yet to try.

The beauty product is infused with virgin oil de coco creme which gives it the really frothy, yummy scent. The it's a slice scent smells like vanilla cake. I always find it humorous too because I use this as a soap for a quick wash-up before bed. I then go lay down and tell my hubby that "it smells like cake down there!" We always get a good laugh.



Anyway, as for the product itself... I love it. It is a perfectly good, sudsy bubble bath or shower gel. It can be used either way. I prefer to use it as a shower gel because the scent seems to be a little different when used as a bubble bath (although I am unsure of why this is).

Have you seen the commercial where she says "it's like you shoved a rainbow up your nose?" Well this is like you shoved a piece of yummy vanilla cake up your nose. Love it! I highly recommend this product as a gift too. It would be great for bridal/baby showers, etc.

If you have not had the opportunity to try Cake products, I recommend you do so. They are perfect for a little "me" time and everyone deserves a little pampering. Oh and you can make your who-ha smell like vanilla cake! How delicious is that?

The full ingredient list for Cake can be found here.